Workaholism – FamilyLife® https://www.familylife.com Family and Marriage, Help and Hope for Marriages and Families Mon, 25 Sep 2023 16:17:46 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.3 https://www.familylife.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/51/2018/09/Favicon-Icon_32x32.png Workaholism – FamilyLife® https://www.familylife.com 32 32 (More) Time Management for Moms: Crystal Paine https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-today/more-time-management-for-moms-crystal-paine/ Tue, 22 Aug 2023 09:15:00 +0000 https://www.familylife.com/?post_type=wpfc_sermon&p=156569 Need time management just for moms? Crystal Paine of The Time-Saving Mom explains an easy-to-implement four-step system to organize and simplify your life.]]>

Need time management just for moms? Crystal Paine of The Time-Saving Mom explains an easy-to-implement four-step system to organize and simplify your life.
We need to know what we’re prioritizing in our life, because we are all prioritizing something, even if we haven’t determined, “These are my priorities,” our life indicates what we’re prioritizing. But is it in line with what we want to be prioritizing?  — Crystal Paine
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The Time-Saving Mom: Crystal Paine https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-today/the-time-saving-mom-crystal-paine/ Mon, 21 Aug 2023 09:15:00 +0000 https://www.familylife.com/?post_type=wpfc_sermon&p=156470 Too much to do, not enough time to do it? Crystal Paine, of The Time-Saving Mom, delivers real-world, no-nonsense time management advice.]]>

Too much to do, not enough time to do it? You don’t just have to hustle harder. You can simplify and (yes) enjoy your life. Crystal Paine—mom of six, bestselling author of The Money-Saving Mom, and entrepreneur—delivers real-world, no-nonsense time management advice for moms from her latest book, The Time-Saving Mom. Her ideas will keep you sane and enjoying the things you love most.
I used to be someone who is very much a control freak, and recognizing I truly cannot control my life, and it’s so much better when I just release it to Him. So much of our stress comes from us thinking that we can control the people and the things in our life. So when we’re just gripping so tightly to everything and trying to make our plan work, that’s when we feel so much frustration. — Crystal Paine
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Productivity, Untangled: Jen Pollock Michel https://www.familylife.com/podcast/real-life-loading/productivity-untangled-jen-pollock-michel/ Fri, 14 Apr 2023 09:15:00 +0000 https://www.familylife.com/?post_type=wpfc_sermon&p=147841 Does productivity really make a great life? Whether you're trying to find time, save it, manage it, or make the most of it, Jen Pollock Michel's got ideas.]]>

What if time doesn’t belong to us — but to God? Is productivity really what makes a great life? Whether you’re trying to find time, save it, manage it, or make the most of it, author and speaker Jen Pollock Michel’s got ideas to detangle your priorities.
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Getting More from Work Than a Paycheck: Tim Kimmel & Michael Tooker https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-today/getting-more-from-work-than-a-paycheck-tim-kimmel-michael-tooker/ Fri, 11 Nov 2022 10:00:00 +0000 https://www.familylife.com/?post_type=wpfc_sermon&p=139089 Feeling so over your job? Authors Tim Kimmel and Michael Tooker talk about ways to bring grace to work and radically change how your look at your job.]]>

Feeling so over your job? On FamilyLife Today, Dave and Ann Wilson host authors Tim Kimmel and Michael Tooker, who talk about ways to bring grace to work and radically change how your look at your job.
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Why Workaholism Looks So Good: Tim Kimmel & Michael Tooker https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-today/why-workaholism-looks-so-good-tim-kimmel-michael-tooker/ Thu, 10 Nov 2022 10:00:00 +0000 https://d1ueb8h0efn28g.cloudfront.net/?post_type=wpfc_sermon&p=138559 Workaholism makes a good attempt to fullfill your needs but what's the real cost. Authors Tim Kimmel and Michael Tooker share their own stories and look beneath the luster of overwork.]]> ]]> Jordan Raynor: Redeeming Your Time https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-today/jordan-raynor-redeeming-your-time/ Thu, 29 Sep 2022 09:00:00 +0000 https://d1ueb8h0efn28g.cloudfront.net/?post_type=wpfc_sermon&p=135813 Need strategies to help you dial in your productivity and purpose? Author Jordan Raynor poses ideas to help you deal with distraction, redeeming your time.]]>

Need strategies to help you dial in your productivity and purpose? Author Jordan Raynor poses ideas to help you deal with distraction, redeeming your time.

 
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How to Slow Down https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-today/how-to-slow-down/ Thu, 24 Feb 2022 08:02:13 +0000 https://www.familylife.com/podcast/%wpfc_service_type%/how-to-slow-down/ Wondering if there's more to life than the daily grind of expectations and demand? Podcaster Ashley Hales shares how to slow down and escape the hustle.]]>

Wondering if there’s more to life than the daily grind of expectations and demand? Podcaster Ashley Hales shares how to slow down and escape the hustle.
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How to Parent When You’re Losing It (…Or Your Kids Are) https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-today/how-to-parent-when-youre-losing-it-or-your-kids-are/ Wed, 23 Feb 2022 08:03:12 +0000 https://www.familylife.com/podcast/%wpfc_service_type%/how-to-parent-when-youre-losing-it-or-your-kids-are/ Wondering how to parent when you're losing your mind--or your child is blowing their top? Authors Marcus Warner and Chris Coursey show how to move from reactive parenting to relational connection.]]>

How do you relate to your child when you don’t know what to do? On FamilyLife Today, authors Marcus Warner and Chris Coursey teach parents how to go from reactive to relational.
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If you thought, “what do you mean you can’t spoil a toddler?”, find out more in this bonus content with Marcus and Chris Coursey..
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A Mistress Called Ministry https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-today/a-mistress-called-ministry/ https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-today/a-mistress-called-ministry/#respond Mon, 27 Apr 2015 11:00:00 +0000 https://www.familylife.com/podcast/%wpfc_service_type%/a-mistress-called-ministry/ Did you know that there's a mistress flirting around your pastor's door? The mistress's name? Ministry. Dennis Rainey speaks to pastors about how they can avoid this marriage-destroying trap.]]> ]]> https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-today/a-mistress-called-ministry/feed/ 0 If We Packed Up and Left, Would He Even Notice? https://www.familylife.com/uncategorized/if-we-packed-up-and-left-would-he-even-notice/ https://www.familylife.com/uncategorized/if-we-packed-up-and-left-would-he-even-notice/#respond Fri, 26 Sep 2014 15:51:00 +0000 https://sites-stage.familylife.com/flministries/?p=9514 My husband was working more hours than he or I wanted … and I was turning into a shrew.]]>

My husband struggles with workaholism, a time-stealing beast he continuously tries to tame. As his loving wife I do my very best to support him by praying for him and living with him in an understanding way.

During one of those seasons in life when he was working more hours than he or I wanted him to, I was turning into a shrew. Now granted, I had just cause and he knew it, but adding more pressure was not the answer.

Our home was filled with turmoil because my attitude had pretty much tanked. At one point I even reasoned with myself that I should just pack up the kids and leave because he was never there anyway.

I even remember my snarky thoughts when I declared to myself, He probably won’t even notice for a few days. Which was foolishness, because the only thing keeping that man upright was the love he had for us and his comfort in knowing we were well and safe.

At the core of my problem was that I had forgotten my vows, for better or for worse. This was a worse. A big worse.

My man was not breaking his vow; he was just in a tough season and I had to look beyond that season to who I knew he was and to what was best for our family. And what was best for our family was not making matters worse by demanding my way.

I could let him have it—make my point with a loud voice and lots of words. I could have taken any semblance of love and peace that had been salvaged in our home and stomped it into the earth and ground it to oblivion.

My husband didn’t have time for me, and I was hurt. So I was ready to do something drastic to get his attention. Never once did I stop to consider that maybe God was doing something drastic to get my attention.

God was at work

This tough season in our life led me straight to prayer, to God’s Word, to seeking Him as never before. And that ultimately led to brokenness over the hole in my heart that needed to be filled by God’s love, not my husband’s attention. God was at work even in my hard circumstances.

We weathered that storm because our home was built on a solid foundation. As the storm was wafting into the distance, my husband shared with me one night that his own walk with the Lord had been strengthened because I was so patient and kind with him when he had no right to receive such patience and kindness from me. He said he understood more fully that Christ’s love for him was not based on his performance.

It was just after this tumultuous time that we got the call to leave corporate America to come to work for FamilyLife and serve in ministry.

It is not lost on me that this call may never have happened had I made that drastic move to get some attention.

I don’t know the depths of your pain or the problems you are facing in your marriage, but I do know God is not surprised by what you are going through. Seek Him in prayer, praise, worship, and the reading of His Word.  He will keep in perfect peace those who trust Him (Isaiah 26:3).


Copyright © 2014 by FamilyLife.  All rights reserved.  This article originally appeared in MomLife Today®.

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